tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post8152965273588638030..comments2023-05-06T05:22:17.802-04:00Comments on Da Eads: Pro-SpankingStephaine Eadshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12524978227195713800noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-17879368407875692312018-03-19T20:31:20.030-04:002018-03-19T20:31:20.030-04:00As a mom of 4 daughters aged 4 to 10. I can assure...As a mom of 4 daughters aged 4 to 10. I can assure you that all of them have and if needed still go over my knee for a sound spanking and yes shoot me it's bare bottom too. Wow I'm such a bad parent, yet my children are so well mannered compared to their friends, actually their moms ask me what my secret is, and I tell them. I am proud to say a couple of no spank moms have changed their mind, and their children attitudes have changed for the better. My kids don't often need spanking but when they do it is done with love and afterwards hugs and it is all forgotten. I have the best behaved well mannered respectful girls I know Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-47526478365666537492014-09-02T04:28:29.909-04:002014-09-02T04:28:29.909-04:00"Think about this....we can't spank adult..."Think about this....we can't spank adults just because there out of line."<br /><br />That's true. What we do is lock them in a cage, which is much, much worse than a spanking. We ought to consider corporal punishment in the criminal system. It would be much more humane than the system we already have.Dennisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-45857111116946766282012-10-29T17:36:53.266-04:002012-10-29T17:36:53.266-04:00Pitiful and sad that so many parents think that in...Pitiful and sad that so many parents think that inflicting pain is discipline. What is even sadder is that they express their pro-spanking opinion with an arrogant and mean-spirited pride that suggest that instead of truly viewing children as human beings to be loved and guided there are nothing more than chattel to be used with little thought or care. Sad.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-68228414351364909012012-10-29T17:35:20.815-04:002012-10-29T17:35:20.815-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-37924317266010640212012-09-27T23:38:44.523-04:002012-09-27T23:38:44.523-04:00Last sentence meant to say, children should not fe...Last sentence meant to say, children should not fear their parents. Sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-44469810214486617572012-09-27T23:35:49.790-04:002012-09-27T23:35:49.790-04:00Just a couple of facts : spanking leads to aggress...Just a couple of facts : spanking leads to aggressive behavior, bullying, mental illness, and sexual fetishes. There's been a lot of research done in the past 22 years. Please look into it if u still use this method of discipline, its not the 1960s anymore. Its pure ignorance. Its traumatic for children therefore the developing brain turns it into a pleasure, hence adult fetishes. If not many other cognitive disfunction which they have to live with. Use logic PLEASE. Think about this....we can't spank adults just because there out of line. We'd get arrested for sexual assault. How dare anyone hit a small child, its an immediate fix with long -term consequences. Children should fear there parents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-32358880043326719772012-06-03T13:09:01.777-04:002012-06-03T13:09:01.777-04:00I deserved every spanking I got as a child. Spank...I deserved every spanking I got as a child. Spankings are good and needed. My mom and dad spanked me bare-butt with a wooden spoon and I have nothing but appreciation for them.bluestatedadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00934751703986166303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-41663642352829869962012-06-03T13:07:51.277-04:002012-06-03T13:07:51.277-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.bluestatedadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00934751703986166303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-82016434066433457302011-12-27T14:30:13.287-05:002011-12-27T14:30:13.287-05:00You're not a horrible mother...just a lazy one...You're not a horrible mother...just a lazy one who didn't wish to make the effort to keep her parenting non-violent. Maybe you'll get popped the same way when you are elderly by children whom you taught the technique.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-65342560061803139192011-12-12T23:19:21.453-05:002011-12-12T23:19:21.453-05:00Hmmm, to the couple of people on here who are anti...Hmmm, to the couple of people on here who are anti-spanking: it's interesting to see that you are quick to judge and talk about how terrible and unintelligent people who spank their children are and how ineffective it is, yet you are the two who are the most condescending and the only two so far that I can see who have use name-calling and put-downs. Maybe if someone had disciplined you a little more harshly, you'd have better manners. So much for the "spanking begets violence" theory, because the second anti-spanker who is the third person named "Anonymous" is threatening violence herself. Interesting....not to mention hypocritical. "Your child should hit you back"? This is the problem with the world today; children are not afraid of their parents because some people think spanking does not equal love, yet sometimes love means you do things that are best for the child, but maybe not the most pleasant. Maybe when people stop being afraid of their children, and afraid of what their government might do to them, we'll restore a little sanity to this crazy world. And P.S., I can point to dozens of scientific and legal studies that say spanking is more effective and actually helps to lessen violent crime in the long run, rather than increase it.Clairenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-16150820575158658212011-02-11T22:36:14.728-05:002011-02-11T22:36:14.728-05:00I am so glad to see this website. Thank you Jesus...I am so glad to see this website. Thank you Jesus. My partner and I just adopted an 11 year old girl. We have fostered her for a year and a half and now finalized the adoption. I told her that spanking was coming. Please let me describe some behaviors: peeing on the floor, telling the neighbors that a stranger was chasing her (lie), disrespecting teachers and adults in general. It is freeing to know that I am now able to connect a really bad behavior to a really bad consequence that is swift and just. I want her to think ahead about what is coming. Kids need to know cause and effect. She is learning quickly now that all parental rights are in play. I am also a teacher and, not saying a good spanking would help all children, but I have quite a few students that a good swat in the hall would keep them in school and probably raise a few test scores!!!! Thank you so much for living in reality, all of you. It is refreshing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-55693708243292937002010-10-08T11:25:02.487-04:002010-10-08T11:25:02.487-04:00The problem with you pro-spanking parents is that ...The problem with you pro-spanking parents is that you think that the opposite of being pro-spanking is being anti-discipline. Nonsense. As a father of two, now grown, and a teacher of hundreds of elementary school students, I know that purposefully and willfully inflicting pain on children to mandate obedience is not only unnecessary and cruel but lazy and ultimately ineffective in establishing a moral code or teaching anything.<br /><br />How sad, that parent who claim that their children are so important to them are so inept and idea-less so as to need to resort to physical punishment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-26844651468571775162010-04-29T16:22:58.065-04:002010-04-29T16:22:58.065-04:00I am an unabashed pro-spanking parent--even though...I am an unabashed pro-spanking parent--even though some of my friends think I must be insane--until their kids are driving them insane and notice that this is not a problem in our home--LOL <br /><br />But, we are not alone--there are other Moms who believe there is something to <a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=127017473271&ref=search&sid=887480393.2860246984..1" rel="nofollow">a parenting technique that has been used for eons by satisfied parents.</a>Becky C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06415067599794969890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-43100613567924857172010-04-19T23:17:48.536-04:002010-04-19T23:17:48.536-04:00I'm not sure actually. I can't remember a...I'm not sure actually. I can't remember a time so far that I've spanked my little guy. Sure he's done all those little things mentioned here of course, but I guess I just naturally have responded differently. I don't think Jack has either, though I know one of his grandparents has popped him on the leg at least once or twice. And I clearly remember telling my mother before I became a mom that I would not have an issue with spanking and I don't think my opinion on the matter has changed that much, I just haven't felt it was the right response yet I guess. <br /><br />Oh & I was one of those kids that was more afraid of a spanking too so I almost never had to get one. I'd straighten up if I thought it was coming!Mickiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16145585669821100004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-27571578944770510572010-04-15T14:26:35.262-04:002010-04-15T14:26:35.262-04:00I agree with you 100%. i got popped when I did som...I agree with you 100%. i got popped when I did something that could hurt myself or others and I will continue that tradition with Olivia!Melissanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-1750198698706130912010-04-14T16:07:07.324-04:002010-04-14T16:07:07.324-04:00Guilty and proud. Arse popping doesn't even h...Guilty and proud. Arse popping doesn't even hurt them right now because of the diapers, so I don't even feel bad about doing it.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08443212927739890138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5402831902569106517.post-44963735966699626492010-04-14T09:19:14.093-04:002010-04-14T09:19:14.093-04:00I am a pro-spanking parent now in the teenage year...I am a pro-spanking parent now in the teenage years of parenting and I dare Kyle to call DSS! I assure you I would dial the number for him!<br /><br />When he was a toddler we spanked him and not only on saftey issues. I would pop that tater in a second if he needed it...and still will even though he will soon be 14!<br /><br />That is what is wrong with this would today. We as a society are raising our children to have NO decipline and they think that everything should be handed to them with NO questions asked...not on my watch sister! <br /><br />I have popped Kyle in church before and dared anyone to say a word to me..."spare the rod, spoil the child" thats what the Lord says!Trishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09856320171114749995noreply@blogger.com